This is a post copied directly from Chalene Johnson. I just love her and want to grow up to be just like her some day. LOL! She speaks from the heart and straight into your soul with such wisdom. It's tough love sometimes but she does it with love and she's just real. That's what I love about her.
Anyway...I wanted to share this with you too because it's something we ALL can learn from. This is not just about her private clients she coaches. This is about all of us. Imagine if we all have this in our minds every day, with every encounter. We'd fill the world with such love, compassion and positivity wouldn't we? You won't get this off your mind once you read it. You'll be thinking about this during all your interactions. You can't unlearn this now that you know it! You're welcome. :)
Here is the post from Chalene:
A
huge component to changing your life is to change your words, change
your thoughts...soon after your thoughts, actions and beliefs will
follow.
I posted this to my private Smart Success Academy members. It's tough love. They signed up and were accepted so it's my job to deliver the best to them and to protect them and to guide us in the direction of unwaveringly positive thinking!!!
I thought I would share the rules that we make them stick to in my private FB group...
Please read this important mindset message:
To be a productive member of this group I ask that you STOP before you hit post and ask yourself the following:
1. Before I occupy the time of others with my question, is the answer right in front of me or could I go through the lesson/module again with more focus and determination and an open mind and perhaps find the clarity I was looking for?
2. Does this post focus primarily on my "problem" or have I found a possible and suggested solution? I am my solution. I am my solution and I am improving my ability to see the right way. If I know the solution I need to have confidence in my decision.
3. Is there a more positive and uplifting way to pose this question?
4. Am I honestly seeking an opinion or advice or am I really longing
for someone to listen, care and hear me? If the later is true I need to
search for council--- but not in this group. Smart people seek the help
of a profession.
5. Panic, worry, stress, negativity, depression, defeat, and exhaustion are not allowed here. You are entitled to feel those things but you are not permitted to introduce those very contagious emotions here. Period. This is not a support group. Your focus becomes your reality.
6. Ask yourself if you could rewrite each post with emphasis on your blessings. Focus on your favor, the abundance in your life. Don't waste energy by focusing on that which you don't want more of.
7. Your partner, mother, brother, wife or adult child might be a horrible person. We can read between the lines. No need for dirty details. Please focus on the positive. Don't allow the poison in your heart continue to stop you. Release it ... but not here. I will not permit negative commentary about others, including your jerky-ex. To say negative things about an unsupportive spouse is very telling about your approach. If what you're doing isn't working - first, change your approach, then do that 10 more times------ before deciding what you're willing to accept.
8. If you spend your whole day here on FB--- in this group, jumping to aid of each and every person who posts, while I appreciate your kind heart, I also what you're avoiding? When will you'll have time to GO OUT AND DO IT if you live in this group? Check back a couple times a week. That's it. Be careful not to collect too many wounded birds. Before you can be someone else's hero you need to be the hero in your own life.
You have big dreams and much in store for your life if you chose to focus on the positive! Who has time for bitterness toward those who actually came into your life to teach you a lesson. Thank God for that lesson and move on. Instead of complaining that no one supports you, how about you take note that God is in your corner! Focus on the miracle your life is about to become. See the blessing in your life and keep your eyes on the prize.
Change your thoughts - change your words - change your focus and NO ONE CAN STOP YOU!
I posted this to my private Smart Success Academy members. It's tough love. They signed up and were accepted so it's my job to deliver the best to them and to protect them and to guide us in the direction of unwaveringly positive thinking!!!
I thought I would share the rules that we make them stick to in my private FB group...
Please read this important mindset message:
To be a productive member of this group I ask that you STOP before you hit post and ask yourself the following:
1. Before I occupy the time of others with my question, is the answer right in front of me or could I go through the lesson/module again with more focus and determination and an open mind and perhaps find the clarity I was looking for?
2. Does this post focus primarily on my "problem" or have I found a possible and suggested solution? I am my solution. I am my solution and I am improving my ability to see the right way. If I know the solution I need to have confidence in my decision.
3. Is there a more positive and uplifting way to pose this question?
4. Am I honestly seeking an opinion or advice or am I really longing
for someone to listen, care and hear me? If the later is true I need to
search for council--- but not in this group. Smart people seek the help
of a profession. 5. Panic, worry, stress, negativity, depression, defeat, and exhaustion are not allowed here. You are entitled to feel those things but you are not permitted to introduce those very contagious emotions here. Period. This is not a support group. Your focus becomes your reality.
6. Ask yourself if you could rewrite each post with emphasis on your blessings. Focus on your favor, the abundance in your life. Don't waste energy by focusing on that which you don't want more of.
7. Your partner, mother, brother, wife or adult child might be a horrible person. We can read between the lines. No need for dirty details. Please focus on the positive. Don't allow the poison in your heart continue to stop you. Release it ... but not here. I will not permit negative commentary about others, including your jerky-ex. To say negative things about an unsupportive spouse is very telling about your approach. If what you're doing isn't working - first, change your approach, then do that 10 more times------ before deciding what you're willing to accept.
8. If you spend your whole day here on FB--- in this group, jumping to aid of each and every person who posts, while I appreciate your kind heart, I also what you're avoiding? When will you'll have time to GO OUT AND DO IT if you live in this group? Check back a couple times a week. That's it. Be careful not to collect too many wounded birds. Before you can be someone else's hero you need to be the hero in your own life.
You have big dreams and much in store for your life if you chose to focus on the positive! Who has time for bitterness toward those who actually came into your life to teach you a lesson. Thank God for that lesson and move on. Instead of complaining that no one supports you, how about you take note that God is in your corner! Focus on the miracle your life is about to become. See the blessing in your life and keep your eyes on the prize.
Change your thoughts - change your words - change your focus and NO ONE CAN STOP YOU!
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